As I was headed home I always take time and talk to God so this specific conversation was basically on waiting for my spouse and being clear on the things I ask of God in my significant other. I compared waiting as it is to baking a cake.
You have certain ingredients you use to make this cake vice versa the things we ask of God in our mate.
What made me compare the two was the waiting process on how we sit but not rush the timing. We do other things in the mean time to keep us occupied while we wait.
We wait patiently throughout the baking process for the cake to rise which is liquid then it rises to this cake texture same as it is to waiting while you’re single being alone to yourself and then you’re blessed with what you waited for.
I think we should learn to be more patient look at it as if we take the cake out to early it’s not done same as if we rush God for love and we have someone come into our life and we’re not as ready as we think we are at the moment which makes us reject.
I feel as if when love happens it’ll happen when the time is right just make sure to not want the process to be of faster speed because you’ll end up receiving something/mate that’s not ready!
Clearly we all have a purpose rather you have discovered your calling we are all here for a specific reason. While going through my transition in life I found myself losing people close to me and it affected me in every way. I had people talking down on me I went through a stage I was so discouraged I dropped my pen gave up writing for a minute I nearly let someone stuck all the energy inside of me I was weak felt like I was battling demons but later I realized it was all a TEST.
I had to realize everyone will not be happy for you because of how God blesses you not only that but smiling is contagious to the miserable & people will do everything they can to knock you down when they see you’re happy. When I battled what I was going through the people around me motivated me I wasn’t judged they understood the changes of life & how things impacts our lives.
At this point in my life I’m so grateful to be surrounded by the ones who encourage me even when I slip I’m back realigned and that’s what life is about having someone there you can rely on not being around jealousy but of love . Moral of the story no matter how hard life gets you can’t get through it alone, make sure the people you surround yourself with are people of encouragement & people of understanding.
Understanding that life battles are hard and at times we come across the bumps. Often times I think we’re afraid to drive over instead we detour not knowing what’s ahead. I’m a firm believer in keep pushing keep continuing don’t be afraid to leap over because greater is ahead. Moral of the story no matter how hard life gets no matter how tough times get no matter what you’re facing keep pushing but understand that in any given moment your life can be changed. You have to KNOW that this isn’t the life God has planned and believe he’ll take you higher. The pain you may be facing won’t compare to the joy that’ll be replacing.